A woman shared the heartbreaking moment that defined the downfall of her marriage. In a viral TikTok video, she recalled how two simple words from her husband forever haunted her.
Husband ruins his bride’s wedding day with two words
On social media, a woman, who goes by @noiwontthanks on TikTok, revealed that just moments after saying “I do,” her husband made an unsettling comment.
“My husband ruined our wedding day,” she wrote in the viral video before it got deleted.
The bride, who goes by @noiwontthanks, explained that her husband’s words left her devastated. This incident has haunted her for over 11 years.
The couple’s quick decision to marry
The woman and her boyfriend had only been dating for four months when they decided to marry. They chose to skip a traditional wedding and got married at a courthouse.
At the time, the bride felt relieved to avoid the stress and attention of a big celebration.
After the ceremony, the couple was still in high spirits. They had just become husband and wife. But soon, the groom’s comment would change everything.
The judge, who enjoyed officiating weddings, made a lighthearted remark. He said he would love to hear an update on their relationship in ten years. The bride responded with a joke, saying, “Hopefully I fit in the same dress.”
Then, her husband’s words left her stunned. Without hesitation, he replied, “Or smaller.”
The impact of his words
The groom made a comment about her dress size, saying “or smaller,” which upset her deeply. Image Credits: noiwontthanks/TikTok
The bride was taken aback. She quickly glanced at her husband’s face, hoping for a sign of humor. But his expression was cold.
“I died inside,” she said. “I froze like a statue. I just couldn’t breathe.”
It was as if everything changed in that moment. She felt the relationship starting to unravel.
However, her intuition told her something was wrong. She looked at the judge, who appeared shocked. He turned to the groom and said, “Son, you just got married.”
That was when the bride realized: she wasn’t crazy. She wasn’t imagining things. The red flags were there, and her marriage was in trouble.
Despite the painful start, the woman stayed in the marriage for over a decade. During that time, she endured years of psychological abuse.
She described how her husband would gaslight her, making her feel like she was overreacting. The manipulation was constant.
Looking back, the woman believes that the comment on her wedding day was a warning sign of the emotional turmoil to come.
Socia media reactions
The video quickly went viral and sparked debate on social media. In the comments, many viewers expressed their shock at the incident.
One person said: She obviously lacked wisdom and discernment. To stay with him for 10 years also displayed ignorance.
A second wrote: If he hated you he wouldn’t have married you. 60 seconds is too soon to have even signed the marriage certificate. You should have seen signs long before that
While a third commented: So. Don’t get married after meeting the person just four months ago? Who woulda guessed ..
Another added: If that haunted you for years, you need a thicker skin!
Someone else said: 2 words? I’m liberal?
Although they eventually divorced, the woman hopes her story helps others. She wants people to recognize the warning signs early.
“I hope this helps [other people],” she said, encouraging others not to ignore red flags in their relationships.
The experience, while painful, has shaped her understanding of love and self-worth.