Husband had an accident and was still having an affair

Saturday, 13/05/2023, 12:14 (GMT+7)

She spent months caring for her husband, helping him relearn how to eat, walk, talk, and use the phone. However, she is painfully aware that he is still having an affair, despite all her efforts to help him recover

A sad story happened to a 24-year-old woman named Kate Sifuentes from Northern California, USA.

She shared on her personal Douyin page that in January 2022, her husband had a serious car accident. When Sifuentes ran to the hospital, she learned that her husband suffered a traumatic brain injury, was lying in a coma on the hospital bed, and was fighting for his life.

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On that fateful day, she called her husband, but he didn't answer. She began to fear for his safety. Her fears were finally confirmed when police were called to report the accident.

Cifuentes recalled what the police told her: 'All we know is that your husband was in a car accident, he was alive, and he was flown to the hospital.'

She sat beside him, tormented with guilt. She burst into tears. According to news reports, Sifuentes believes her husband caused the accident while trying to reply to her text messages.

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A few days later, he was on the verge of death, but Sifuentes still loved her husband very much.

In the process of taking care of her husband, she checked his mobile phone and suddenly discovered the affair. She saw a barrage of messages, dating app profiles, and social media feeds proving her husband had been involved with other women.

The wife stated that upon turning on her phone, she discovered conversations with a woman on a Snapchat account that she was unfamiliar with. Furthermore, she found evidence that her husband had been using multiple dating sites under different names. 

The couple is still very affectionate, so Sifuentes still takes care of her husband wholeheartedly so that he can recover as soon as possible. Thirty days after her husband woke up, she confronted him about it. Although he didn't say it, he gestured to acknowledge it. The wife shared that she stayed with him when he apologized and asked for another chance.  

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After her husband was discharged from the hospital, Ms. Cifuentes took her husband to the rehabilitation center again for intensive treatment. She spent months caring for her husband, helping him walk, eat, talk, and make phone calls.

But when he was able to use the phone, the husband "got used to the old ways" and continued texting and flirting with other girls.

Sifuentes choked back tears as she said, "I taught him how to use the phone again, but I never imagined he would use it to talk to other women." 

Even this time, her husband didn't bother to hide it anymore. That kind of blatantness chilled the mother of two children. Gradually, she looked at her husband without anger or frustration, but with the feeling that followed his lies. Kate remained with him for the next few months, out of respect for her mother-in-law. Afterward, the mother-in-law moved and moved into a separate apartment with her son.

"Give him back to his mother-in-law. We're going to file for divorce soon. But he wants to take me to court because he wants everything we have together," Kate said.

A person can be unfaithful for a multitude of reasons. Often, however, the result is the same: an affair can wreak havoc on a relationship, leaving the other partner in pain, mistrust, and hopelessness.