After going on 50 first dates, a woman shares dating experiences and reveals the one specific type of guy she would never consider dating.
Dating can be tough, and it has been a wild ride for Tilly, a woman who has gone on 50 first dates.
She has learned much about herself and what she wants in a partner.
Recently, she opened up about the one type of guy she would never date again. Her story brings humor and honesty to the dating scene.
Woman claims there’s one type of guy she never goes out with after 50 first dates
Tilly is active on TikTok under the username @tillytalkz. She shares her dating experiences and the lessons she has learned.
After going on many dates, she has a clear idea of what she wants.
Her dating profile on Hinge indicates that she is looking for an “Essex boy” from Chigwell, a town in the UK.
She wants someone who works in construction and embodies the traits of a “proper lads lad.”
Despite her specific preferences, Tilly admits to having some contradictions in her dating choices.
She describes herself as a “princess” who enjoys shopping and wants to date wealthy men.
This desire for a richer partner is part of what makes her story interesting.
Tilly wrote: “I’m a princess, I wanna go shopping.”
The guy who regularly talk too much about money
Recently, Tilly shared a story about a date that went wrong. She was late by 25 minutes late because of traffic in London.
Even though her date was nice and had the energy she liked, she felt a strong sense of “ick.”
The reason? He talked too much about money.
Tilly found this flashy attitude off-putting, which is ironic given her desire for a wealthy partner.
She explained: “One thing I cannot stand in a man is when he keeps talking about money.
If you’re trying to tell me stuff like that to impress me, it’s actually going to do the opposite and I’m gonna run so far in the other direction.
She emphasized that if someone tries too hard to impress by discussing wealth, it can backfire.
Instead of feeling attracted, she felt turned off. “Be cool, be subtle, be humble,” she advised.
Tilly’s experience highlights an important lesson about dating: sometimes what you think you want is not what you actually need.
She added: “If someone cringes you out and it’s just the first date, you should not see them again.”
This advice resonated with many of her followers, who shared their own dating stories in the comments.
Many people have similar experiences when dating.
One commenter noted they were also trying out the 50 First Dates concept and found it eye-opening.
They mentioned how their perspective on dating had changed during their journey.
Another person questioned Tilly’s need for a partner with money, suggesting that happiness doesn’t come from wealth.
Tilly responded firmly, saying, “Why would I date someone who’s broke?”
Social media reactions
After 50 first dates apparently she is someone guys do not want to go out with beyond first date, one user said.
I wouldn’t go out or listen to someone going out on 50 first dates as some sort of project, the second user commented.
I’m supposed to take advice from someone who’s had 50 first dates? The third user wrote.
She says “Be subtle, be cool, be humble” … but how she acts is completely different, another wrote.
Still playing the dating game at her age, someone said.