A former scaffolder shares his love for his trans fiancée as they happily plan their wedding and future together.
Ayla, who describes herself as a “trans Barbie,” is excited about her future with her boyfriend, David.
The couple, who met on Instagram, are planning to start a family together.
Their love story has sparked interest and conversation about relationships and identities.
How did the couple meet?
Ayla and David, both from Skye, Scotland, first connected on Instagram in 2022.
After chatting online, they quickly fell in love and moved in together just six months later.
David knew Ayla was transgender before they started dating.
He has always seen her as a woman, which is a key part of their relationship.
David shared his thoughts about dating Ayla, saying, “I only ever saw her as a woman.”
He emphasized that her gender identity has never bothered him.
David identifies as straight and insists that he is attracted to women.
He clarifies that he sees Ayla as his girlfriend, not as someone defined by her transition.
“It was never anything to me, I only ever saw her as a woman and that is that.
“Did I ever think I would date a trans person? No, because a woman is a woman to me.
No one has ever suggested I was gay, not to my face anyway.
“I’m not attracted to men, I am attracted to women and she is a woman and that’s it. I am a straight guy.”
Ayla’s journey reflects her true self.
Ayla has undergone significant changes in her life to become her true self.
She began her transition socially at 24 and underwent surgery at 26.
She had always felt a strong desire to express herself, leading her to perform in drag before fully transitioning.
Ayla stated, “My transition surgery was literally life or death for me.”
She recently got breast implants to achieve her ideal look, resembling a real-life Barbie.
This decision has made her feel more confident and happy in her skin.
Their relationship thrives on love and acceptance.
David has quit his job to join Ayla in creating adult content on OnlyFans.
This new venture allows them to spend more time together and pursue their dreams as a couple.
Ayla explained that they decided to work together because they look good as a pair, and it provides them with flexibility in their lives.
He said: ‘She used to make solo adult content and now we are doing it together, it gave us more flexibility, more time together, more of a life.
Ayla added: ‘We look good together too so why not?’
Despite their happiness, Ayla sometimes worries about the future. She fears that David might find their life too overwhelming.
However, David remains optimistic about their plans to settle down and have children.
The couple faces criticism over their unusual relationship
While their relationship is filled with love and excitement, the couple has faced criticism from some people, including Ayla’s family.
She expressed disappointment that her family did not share in her happiness.
She said: ‘I was so happy to be in a normal relationship but it’s not met, by family, with the same shared excitement.
‘It was really hard for me, nothing positive from family, everything was suspicious in terms of “he’s trying to use you to get into the industry that you are in”.
They worried about David’s intentions, thinking he might be using her to gain fame in the adult industry.
In contrast, David reports that his family has supported their relationship.
He has not received negative comments about dating Ayla, which has helped them feel more secure in their bond.
David’s perspective on his relationship is clear: “I am not attracted to men; I am attracted to women, and she is a woman.”
He hopes to break stereotypes surrounding transgender relationships and demonstrate that love is valid, regardless of societal views.